Sorry I’ve been trying to keep my entries somewhat brief, but this one might end up being a little long.
Last weekend I went with my 3 closest friends back to Cape Coast for one night. I'm really glad I went back and got to see and walk around the town of Cape Coast, it's really beautiful and cute and "towny". And I got to see Cape Coast castle, which is where most of the slaves who ended up in the Americas were held to be shipped and traded in the Atlantic slave trade. Then on Sunday I went to Ester's wedding in the Eastern region. I'm glad I got the chance to experience a Ghanaian wedding.
Last weekend I went with my 3 closest friends back to Cape Coast for one night. I'm really glad I went back and got to see and walk around the town of Cape Coast, it's really beautiful and cute and "towny". And I got to see Cape Coast castle, which is where most of the slaves who ended up in the Americas were held to be shipped and traded in the Atlantic slave trade. Then on Sunday I went to Ester's wedding in the Eastern region. I'm glad I got the chance to experience a Ghanaian wedding.
I know I always talk about how refreshed and happy I am to be here after going away for the weekend, but this weekend especially felt that way. This is a 4-day weekend for us, and in the past few weeks I had really been feeling like the spark was gone from Ghana. It was getting to be the same old and I’ve been very frustrated with the gender views, food, inefficiency, and heat and just overall ready to ditch Africa and come back to good old America. But still I’ve been determined to make this last month amazing. I don’t want to be just biding my time until I go home, I need to be living it up!
So I went to the Kwahu festival that takes place every Easter weekend in the Eastern Region. It’s most famous for the paragliding part, but there’s also music and events and all the towns and villages are celebrating and partying. I travelled with a group of girls I haven’t travelled with before, but we live in the dorm together. 5 of us set off at 9am Friday and really hadn’t planned ANY part of this trip. We didn’t know exactly how we should get there, and definitely didn’t know where we would sleep; but if there’s one thing I’ve learned about travel in Africa, it’s that even if you have a plan it will NEVER go as planned, so it’s best not to have expectations. The most amazing thing is that everything just fell right into place and worked out so smoothly (by African standards). We took a bus up to Nkawkaw which is the main town in the Eastern region, took a trotro to Obo, some village we heard we should go to next. Then wandered around looking for accommodations and finally just hopped in a cab and stopped at the first hotel we saw. It was pretty high-end so luckily the rooms weren’t sold out. It was 80 Cedis for a room with a double bed and bathroom. Very pricey but the manager let the 5 of us sleep in there so it ended up being 16 cedis per person which is usually around what I pay when I stay other places. Two people had to sleep on the floor and 3 in the double bed, but we made it work. Next we wandered around town looking for food because we hadn’t eaten since breakfast and it was getting to be dinner time. Of course there wasn’t much for dinner in this village so we went to a bar that said it had “local and continental dishes”, but all the had was Fufu. That was fine with me and Elena, and the other girls went and got some small street food snacks for dinner.
I decided that now 3 months into my stay in Ghana I really had to give fufu a fair chance. So I ordered fufu in groundnut soup with beef. Of course it came with goat instead, which I gave to Elena. But I did really well with the fufu I thought and it filled me right up. Not sure if I have explained this before but fufu is boiled cassava (like yam) pounded into a dough and served in soup. It looks disgusting and is a little slimy (check out my Facebook album for a visual). You eat it with your hands and break off a ball of dough, dip it in soup, pop it in your mouth and swallow without chewing. The point is to taste the soup, but be filled up by the dough. It’s cheap and very filling. Also the most traditional of Ghanaian dishes. I’m really happy that I gave it a chance because I actually really enjoyed it and happily had my 2nd dose of fufu this weekend on Easter Sunday with my roommate.
The town was so alive by this time of night with people celebrating, and more drunk Ghanaians than I have seen since I’ve been here (drinking really isn’t a big part of the culture normally). This weekend we got an abnormally high number of “Oboruni” and “Akosua” hassling and cat-calls. So we went to the MTN “chill spot” in between our hotel and the town and got some ice cream and sat. There was a DJ here and like 20 young kids swarmed and bombarded us and we danced with them a bit. Then 5 Ghanaian men approached us and even though I’m so used to writing them off automatically, these ones seemed cool so we let them join us. Each of us was having an individual conversation with one of these guys, and somehow about 20 mins into the conversation I find out that the one guy I was talking to, named Wolfgang, or Solomon, is a Buddhist with SGI. I can’t even express how little the chances are of me randomly running into a Buddhist in Ghana, but it happened and it was awesome. We almost didn’t believe one another so we had to quiz each other a little on important people and history of Nichiren Daishonin’s Buddhism hah. He practices in Accra so he knows a lot of the students that I go to meetings with here and I invited him to the student forum we’re having on campus in a few weeks. (Side note is that I’ve been really involved with SGI activities here, which has been such a home away from home for me, and helped me make some really awesome friends.)
Overall, we had a very fun and smooth Friday at the festival, and woke up to go paragliding at 8am. This part of the festival was run really efficiently, and we noticed quickly that it was obviously because it was run entirely by Westerners. We signed up and were numbers 59-63 for paragliding so we had a few hours to watch others lift off and hang out. This was fine with me because the view was absolutely amazing at the top of the mountain. Right before we suited up to go gliding, the vice president of Ghana randomly showed up too for about 15 minutes just to watch and apparently to show his support for developing tourism in Ghana.
Anyways, so the paragliding was obviously a tandem flight with a professional. My paragliding pilot was Loren from Utah and he’s been doing this for over 6 years. He told me about all of his experience and also schooled me on the science behind flying (clouds and air streams and leaning and wind, lots of meteorology, actually) while we were in the air for about 30 minutes. To lift off you run down this cliff at the edge of a mountain, and as the parachute thing picks up the wind, you lift in the air and you’re suddenly flying thousands of feet in the air over the jungle and African villages. It was the most amazing thing I’ve ever done. I was in the air at the same time as my other 4 friends, and Loren was really good friends with the other pilots so they trusted eachother enough for fly pretty close to each other. There wasn’t one moment in the air that I felt unsafe, which was probably the best part. At one point we followed this eagle really close behind because they know where the best air stream is, they’re the real professionals at flying and I literally felt like a bird. As we went down I asked if we could do some tricks, and we did a bunch of 180s and twists and turns in the air which felt way crazier than any amusement park ride I’ve ever been on. We landed in a field, and rode on the back of a pickup back up the mountain. Loren took some pictures while we were in the air that he’s emailing and then I’ll upload them. All in all I know this was not my last time paragliding, I have to experience that again.
After all of that excitement we had to head back to Accra, and endured a long uncomfortable tro ride through a rainstorm, next to some very irritating man named Richard who stared at us every 5 minutes, woke us up a lot and told me I shouldn’t sleep on the bus in case some accident happened and I needed to act fast to protect myself. Even though I was really ready for some private space after being around so many people this weekend, everyone was really happy and nice and accepting and it helped remind me why Ghanaians have a reputation for actually being so pleasant and welcoming.
Today was Easter and while I was sad not to be at the beach house with my family like usual, I got to spend the day with my roommate Naa at her house in Accra and with her family. I took a tro to her place after she got out of church and had a yam and stew lunch at her house. We walked around the block and she showed me her neighborhood and told me how nice it used to be but that no one ever keeps up with any maintenance of parks or buildings or roads, so now it’s al little dumpy. I loved being home with her. It made me feel very reconnected to this place. I went with her to get her hair done, and when we got back to the house her auntie and cousin were pounding some fufu in the back while the family goats grazed on some shrubs just hangin out, no big deal. This time I had fufu with palm nut stew and tuna fish. I loved it even more the second time, and after dinner took a bumpy tro ride back to campus with a stomach full of fufu. Naa and I have built up such a great friendship and it’s going to be so hard to leave her in just 5 weeks…
But wait! The fun hasn’t stopped yet. It’s only Sunday and we still have tomorrow off, so my friends and I are gonna check out the art center in town and hopefully buy some gifts to bring home. Then we’re going to Stephen’s home stay and cooking Mexican food for ourselves!
Finals start in a week, so this past weekend was a perfect way to unwind before studying for exams. I now feel so refreshed and happy to be here again, and it’s funny but I’m really glad that I came to like fufu...it’s so much a part of Ghanaian life and I just feel that much more immersed now. I think the next month is going to be the best one yet.